Just find a gamer chick for a wife and you are set. My first two wives hated that I gamed even though I made ample time for our relationship and my professional life. My current finance is a dream. Her first game console was the Saturn. She is an avid TES PC gamer. Hell, if you are into the modding scene for Morrowind, you likely have seen her work and heard her voice on character add-ons. She plays every console and emulator I have, though, she does have her favorites and I mine. She loves FPS and RPG's like me, but she is not into platformers or SHMUPS.
We would prefer to game than watch TV so you are more likely to find us playing Divinity Original Sin (1 & 2), the Borderland Series, or Left 4 Dead on any given evening to unwind.
She is smart, sexy, and loves gaming. Find a woman like that, and you are set. Don't settle and don't take shit.